There's no more usual basis of union than mutual misunderstanding.

Henry James
About This Quote

This quote, by the great English author Robert Browning, is an example of how people can create a common bond with others or even a family through misunderstanding. It also shows the power of communication. After communicating, misunderstanding is no longer a problem. Misunderstanding can lead to all sorts of misunderstandings.

For example, it could lead to an argument between two spouses that leads to divorce. Or it could lead to two lovers who are unable to communicate properly hurting each other with their words. The second best situation would be one where the misunderstanding led to an understanding that brings both parties closer together.

Source: The Portrait Of A Lady

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